In this digital age, you probably have at least one email account. Perhaps two. And maybe a Facebook page to keep in touch with your grandkids, and a LinkedIn account to stay networked with your professional colleagues. You might even have a blog.

What will happen to all that online information after you die? To the account holder’s benefit, many sites refuse to grant access to anyone other than the account holder. Or, the companies have cumbersome hoops for heirs to jump through to gain control of those accounts, which might include getting a court order. And, the government has very little regulation stipulating how online accounts are to be disposed of upon the account holder’s death.

You will first want to inventory your digital assets: you email accounts, blog, social media and networking accounts (Facebook, Flickr, Twitter, LinkedIn, etc.), and any information stored on employer intranets or computers.

Then, determine the worth, if any, of your digital property. A popular blog or Twitter account with many followers may be worth money. Computer files of your manuscript about the history of railroads, or your ornithological research may have educational value. Photographs and other personal assets may or may not have monetary value, but they almost certainly have significance to your heirs.

Most of us fiercely guard our passwords and account information because of warnings against hackers, viruses, and identity theft. But once you’ve listed all your accounts, you need to decide who will be in charge of each of them (or all of them).

Then, write out your instructions and keep them with your estate planning documents. Otherwise, the decision may end up in the hands of the courts or the website administrators.

James D. Perry

My profession is estate planning. Clients come to me for help on how to preserve their life’s accumulations of wealth and how to pass it on to their loved ones.

What I do for a grandfather and grandmother through legal documents will hopefully convey through transfer of financial assets, a lasting memory of their love and appreciation in the eyes of their children and grandchildren.

But the greatest material wealth my clients possess is not nearly as vast as the richness of knowledge, morals, and wisdom that they hold in their hearts for their families.

A person’s legacy is not solely in the assets they leave behind, and one tradition dating back to biblical times – the ethical will – lives on to provide a vehicle for an individual’s intangible fortune.

An ethical will, or legacy letter, is a document designed to pass on ethical values or life lessons from one generation to the next. It is drafted by you, not me or any other attorney. There are examples of early ethical wills written throughout the Christian Bible, the Jewish Torah, and they are even contained in the oral traditions of Native Americans.

Ethical wills often contain meaningful family stories, personal values and beliefs, statements of faith, blessings, advice, and expressions of love. They may even share regrets, apologies, and final requests. There are no rules or laws about the length or content of an ethical will. It can be a few lines, or paragraphs or many pages in length…this is a case where it really is the thought that counts.

Your ethical will may be kept in a separate document with your last will and testament. However, as much as you hope your heirs follow your sage words and honor your legacy, there is no binding legal authority behind the contents of your ethical will.

Every ethical will is unique. And, while there is no standard format for writing one, there are resources available (books, audio CDs, DVDs and podcasts) to help you write your own.

I urge you to provide for the security of your family by crafting a solid estate plan. But, I also encourage you to be just as generous with your life experiences and values, leaving your loved ones more than just your material possessions.

James D. Perry

In 2008, the federal government collected in excess of $25 billion on individual estates via the estate tax, sometimes called the “death tax.” It’s been six months since the tax lapsed as part of legislation enacted under President George W. Bush in 2001.

Now, the death of one American billionaire, oil magnate Dan L. Duncan, is casting a spotlight on how much the federal government is not collecting.

Duncan’s fortune was estimated to be worth $9 billion, ranking him as the 47^th wealthiest person in the world. Had he died in December 2009, any part of his estate not left to his surviving spouse would have been taxed at a rate of at least 45 percent – at most, $4 billion for the federal government.

The House and Senate failed to come to any consensus last year on legislation that would have prevented the repeal. But, the Senate Finance Committee wants to reinstate the estate tax – the only question being whether the final legislation on the matter will include provisions to collect on the estates of those who have already died this year.

Advocates of the tax point out that the U.S. is home to more than 50 of the world’s billionaires over the age of 80, and claim that the repeal amounts to an unconscionable tax break for the ultra-wealthy in very lean times and historical income disparity. Opponents argue that the tax is unfair because it taxes the same income twice – once when it is earned and again when it is passed on to heirs.

Lawyers agree that any attempt to apply the tax retroactively to the Duncan estate will be met with well-funded legal opposition and arguments that a retroactive tax is unconstitutional.

Congress has another six months to figure out what to do with about Tax-Free 2010. The tax returns at a rate of 55 percent in January 2011.

James D. Perry

It is estimated that by the year 2020, 12 million elderly Americans will be in need of long-term care.  Many of them will have to rely on their adult children as caregivers.

This imposes a heavy emotional and financial burden, even on happy and willing caregivers, and financial assistance for long-term care is sparse.

Medicare generally does not pay for long-term care, which assists people with daily living activities such as cleaning, meal preparation, dressing, bathing, using the bathroom.  Medicaid may pay for some long-term care services, but its eligibility is limited to people with low incomes and limited assets.  Private long-term care insurance can be pricey, especially if you wait until you are over the age of 50 to begin paying premiums.

The new Community Living Assistance Services and Supports (CLASS) Act is an attempt to close the gap between people too rich for government assistance, but not rich enough to afford they care they need.  It goes into effect January 1, 2011 and enrollment is expected to begin in 2013.

The government program acts like long-term care insurance – you pay premiums for five years (working at least three of those years) and it will provide cash to pay for care when you need it for as long as you need care.  No tax dollars are to be used to support the program.

The CLASS Act is not meant to cover the full cost of 24-hour in-home care or a nursing home, but to supplement your personal contribution.  The Congressional Budget Office has assumed a cash benefit of $75 a day, but the Department of Health and Human Services has until October 2012 to hammer out the rules.  But, to put this in perspective, the national average cost last year of an assisted living facility was $37, 572; $75 a day would pay almost three-quarters of that expense.

The best thing to do is to plan now as if long-term care, for yourself or for your aging parents, is a financial inevitability.

James D. Perry